Sunday, January 20, 2013

Changes

Things have been looking differently around the Cooky house this weekend. Seems Vic has been gaining ground on his HoH role and smiling a bit more. He is definitely more observant then he has been in the past and more in charge :)

 
 
 
Saturday morning found me in an unusual position, oh yeah you know the one were we all saying that silent little plea that really I am in trouble for this, really I promise I will be good it won't happen again. But no matter how much we make that plea we still find ourselves OTK and hearing those sweet words that say I love you enough to do this and as my HoH says this is going to hurt you more than it hurts me- Gulp.
 
Last week Vic and I sat down after my last posting and had a true heart to heart about why I wanted this, why I needed this and what I needed from him. For the first time I felt we truly made a huge step forward in this ttwd and I found myself in a very happy safe loving place and still do even today.
Part of our conversation was about rules, guidelines, and or something to this effect. We finally after reading others and discussing our home came to this. I have vows that I have made to him, I guess some would consider them rules but for me these are my vows as his submissive wife that I will uphold they will never change they are the core to our DD relationship and very important to Vic and I. In addition we will have few rules that Vic will set and are subject to change as needed.
 
One of my vows and something I have been trying to do for years is
 
I know I know please for goodness sake I know. It is my dirty little secret- well it was lol. So during our chat he gave me a daily goal for the week and said I was to be on the honor system. Each day like a good girl I wrote down how many I consumed. I should of realized there would be a day of reckoning and a body part to go with it. I am happy to report that I haven't had so much as a puff since Friday night and my tush is still in agreement that if it has anything to say about it I won't be puffing or inhaling or smelling any of those nasty things again. If I can figure out how to put a counter on my blog I will start a smoke free one- 1.5 is today's. Way to go Cathy! Woohoo- yippee...
 I know I am in a better place this past week, Vic has stepped up and has been keeping me in line alot more than ever. I am hearing more of "you are being mouthy" "knock it off" and "we will discuss that later" oh dear my CookieMonster is showing off his pecks (hehe).

 
Have a great week my friends.
 
 
 
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14 comments:

  1. willieJanuary 20, 2013 at 12:35 PM

    I am so happy for you two. Being in the same place at the same time is not always easy to do in ttwd!

    Love
    Willie

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    1. UnknownJanuary 21, 2013 at 5:31 PM

      Thanks Willie, I know we will have our struggles but right now we will keep moving forward.

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  2. BetsyJanuary 20, 2013 at 1:29 PM

    Sounds great around there! We will be cheering you on!

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    1. UnknownJanuary 21, 2013 at 5:32 PM

      I will need all the cheering you will send my way. Thanks Betsy

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  3. SusieJanuary 20, 2013 at 5:25 PM

    Good for you on not smoking for a couple days. LOL...it's quite amazing what a little motivation will do. Keep up the good work. It sounds like you two are in a really good place right now.

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    1. UnknownJanuary 21, 2013 at 5:34 PM

      Oh yes a little motivation goes a long way. Vic is keeping me motivated. Thanks

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  4. RozJanuary 21, 2013 at 1:54 AM

    It sounds as though things are going well there. Glad you had that talk and are feeling in a safe, happy and loving place :)

    Good for you on the smoking goal. It's my dirty little secret too - sigh! ... well, I guess not anymore LoL

    Hugs
    Roz

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    1. UnknownJanuary 21, 2013 at 5:37 PM

      Things are going well Roz, we are moving forward.

      If you ever decide to quit I so recommend chantix and a HoH who motivates you. Lol

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  5. JuneJanuary 21, 2013 at 8:29 PM

    I quit smoking ..... hmmmm.... 26 years ago, yikes! After smoking for 13 years. The first week was the hardest, then it was cake. Best of luck, and looks like you have some awesome help :)

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    1. UnknownJanuary 22, 2013 at 5:20 PM

      Thanks June, yes I do have an awesome helper. I have tried before and for some reason or another I always turn back to it. Hopefully this time I won't and Vic is here to assist me.

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  6. Ami StarsongJanuary 21, 2013 at 11:55 PM

    This is wonderful Cathie! It must be very difficult to just give up like that. Just think of all the money you are saving. You can go out and buy some beautiful and sexy underwear from Victoria's secret. Think how happy your HOH will be then!! I am very glad to see you are moving forward in big leaps!

    Hugs, Ami

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    1. UnknownJanuary 22, 2013 at 5:22 PM

      Yes Amy seems we are leaping away here. Vic is really stepping up and taking charge of our humble home. I am looking forward to all the money I save- hmmm maybe a nice romantic get-away to show off those new vicki panties.

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  7. Mrs. DJanuary 27, 2013 at 6:25 AM

    Good luck with the no smoking... It is one of the hardest things to give up.

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  8. UnknownJanuary 27, 2013 at 3:59 PM

    So far so good a week and 2 days Thanks Mrs D

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