Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Questions you say

I don't claim to be good at answers but ask any way
The last few days I have been reading about March being Q and A month. As you can see I don't promise to always give good answers but if you ask me one or two I will try my best to answer you. I am pretty sure at this stage I have more questions than answers but I am willing. 

My question for all of you that are brave enough to stop by my blog is:

Who do you think celebrity/royal/actor/actress etc. wise might be spanked in their life?

So many to choose from so little time

Thursday, March 7, 2013

Holding Pattern

I want my HoH to lead and I find myself often interfering with it. I tell him the punishment was to much, I don't like the implement he used, he doesn't follow up, he doesn't give me answers, and on and on I could go.

I use to think that I was a pretty patient person, I am starting to re-think that. I haven't done alot of posting lately but have done plenty of reading and am picking a few things from here and there and quietly attempting to do them.

When I am feeling out of sorts I plant thoughts in his head of what I think he should do or what he shouldn't do. Another blogger said in a post that her HoH caught onto this and quickly and smartly said ENOUGH you will not lead.

I have to let him step up and I need to stop planting the seed, he like I want this DD life to work, we like where it is leading.

Normally I send a link to Vic with my post but not this one he needs to get where he is going without me driving the car. I need to keep myself in check and not get pouty, sassy, directing, coaching, and all the things I normally do.

I am putting myself in a holding pattern and letting him lead. I hope and pray that I can find the patience to let him do what he needs to do.

I decided to put myself in a holding pattern and see what happens