tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288628723373661009.post6066451411430285497..comments2016-01-21T11:16:44.832-08:00Comments on Cookiemonsterswife: Can I to May IAnonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12593540781048637365noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288628723373661009.post-32644745756899966442013-02-20T21:12:53.508-08:002013-02-20T21:12:53.508-08:00Words have such power, Cathie, and convey our defe...Words have such power, Cathie, and convey our deference so clearly if we let them. Can I to may I, I told you to I shared with you, okay to yes, love. it communicates so much, and helps both of partners' mindsets :)Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288628723373661009.post-71474107773621913932013-02-20T20:44:43.207-08:002013-02-20T20:44:43.207-08:00this is a PS :) Love that photo of that statue tha...this is a PS :) Love that photo of that statue that you have at the start of your blog. This position has only just been introduced to our house, as the ultimate surrender both in submission and for a major spanking..cause in this position it hurts like H*ll<br />HugsHezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288628723373661009.post-73523109741177437972013-02-20T18:03:50.769-08:002013-02-20T18:03:50.769-08:00Hi Cathie, these gestures that may seem small make...Hi Cathie, these gestures that may seem small make a huge difference to our Dom/sub mindsets. I use may rather than can and it does help. When he asks me to do something, or gives an instruction I also try to respond with yes instead of ok. Ok means I'll do it b/cos I agree whereas yes say's I'll do it b/cos you said.<br /><br />Good on you!<br /><br />Hugs<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288628723373661009.post-57906726988683552202013-02-20T14:32:25.767-08:002013-02-20T14:32:25.767-08:00Hez I am happy to hear someone else is doing this ...Hez I am happy to hear someone else is doing this and it helps. Sometimes it is the little things that add up to a wonderful relationship.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12593540781048637365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288628723373661009.post-62073374374749720292013-02-20T14:31:07.132-08:002013-02-20T14:31:07.132-08:00Thanks Tess, I hope it does. Time will tell just l...Thanks Tess, I hope it does. Time will tell just like all things we do.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12593540781048637365noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288628723373661009.post-33057767821485181622013-02-20T12:02:04.417-08:002013-02-20T12:02:04.417-08:00Hi Cathie
We started doing this a wee while back....Hi Cathie<br /><br />We started doing this a wee while back. It does help, or at least it did for us. It helps when you ask 'May I' with the whole submission thing. Such a little change from saying 'Can I' which sounds more like a demand than a request.<br />Good luck<br />HugsHezhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10045994566818889148noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7288628723373661009.post-83282667930742623162013-02-20T09:16:22.843-08:002013-02-20T09:16:22.843-08:00That's a nice idea Cathie. Good luck with it!...That's a nice idea Cathie. Good luck with it! Tesshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10536577215955884713noreply@blogger.com